THIS!!! I AM CRYING! This is me! Never believed in therapy…many reasons why..but THIS RIGHT HERE 😢😢My nervous system wrote a rule book: if I do not get too close, nothing can leave. If I do not finish, it cannot be judged. If I vanish first, I cannot be abandoned. You can’t hurt me if I can hurt you first.
Really appreciated this one, Jennifer. Your writing has a way of making the hard stuff feel approachable and human. Thank you for sharing so honestly x
Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us on this new platform. I feel like I’m getting to know “my big sister” Jen. Your posts so far have been super enlightening - love seeing your words pop into my inbox! x
Damn... literally YEARS of therapy and TWO sentences that you wrote were like a nuclear eruption in my brain.
I have ghosted myself too many times to count. It's time for me to show up for me.
Also realizing that I am a ghost, married to a ghost... fuck. Thank you for the inspiration...
I am a ghost…married to a ghost. Brilliant.
Xx
THIS!!! I AM CRYING! This is me! Never believed in therapy…many reasons why..but THIS RIGHT HERE 😢😢My nervous system wrote a rule book: if I do not get too close, nothing can leave. If I do not finish, it cannot be judged. If I vanish first, I cannot be abandoned. You can’t hurt me if I can hurt you first.
This is why we keep one foot in and one foot out. Self-protection from whatever your wiring, trauma stems from.
I see a book in your future.
I do too. 😉
Really appreciated this one, Jennifer. Your writing has a way of making the hard stuff feel approachable and human. Thank you for sharing so honestly x
I’m glad you are here.❤️
Thanks Lucy!❤️
Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us on this new platform. I feel like I’m getting to know “my big sister” Jen. Your posts so far have been super enlightening - love seeing your words pop into my inbox! x
Hi hi! Happy to see you here!
Super inspiring. Thank you for sharing and for being vulnerable and relatable. -Lori
Happy you are here.